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By: Hal C Clarke
Gen Z is reshaping date nights in New York City, trading traditional dinner plans for more creative, hands-on experiences — and the New York Post reports that activities mixed with alcohol are leading the charge.
Boozy events like painting, pumpkin carving, and even cannabis-infused art sessions are rapidly gaining favor. Valeen Bhat, founder of Brooklyn’s Private Picassos, told the NY Post, “We’re definitely seeing a rise in couples coming in.” She noted that a drink or two provides “liquid courage,” easing first-date jitters.
Places like Paint and Pour in Manhattan and Chinatown’s Wick and Pour have capitalized on this trend, while pop-up events continue to add unique twists like BYOB pasta-making or wine-fueled cake decorating. Jenny Kashanian, who runs NY Cake Academy, said that since adding BYOB classes, couples have flocked to bake and decorate together. “We’re seeing more date nights for younger people,” she explained, pointing out how attendees often eat their creations on-site.
Cost is another factor. Bhat mentioned how pricey city living makes these budget-friendly, BYOB gatherings attractive. “An event where you can bring your own thing means you’re saving a little and are more in control of your spending,” she said. Similarly, Nurullah Gokdogan of Manhattan’s Kraft Stories emphasized the affordability of combining wine with a fun activity for under $50.
The NY Post also highlights the experiential appeal for young daters. Bela Gandhi, dating coach and host of Smart Dating Academy, endorsed the idea: “I love the idea of doing something on a budget that’s still fun and lets you connect.” She explained that interactive activities foster meaningful conversations without the awkwardness of a formal dinner. “It just seems less awkward and expensive,” Gandhi noted.
Gandhi did, however, caution against bringing highly competitive partners, warning that “alpha” personalities might focus too much on winning rather than bonding. Still, organizers like Bhat prioritize safety, especially for tipsy attendees wielding sharp tools. For pumpkin carving sessions, Bhat ensures pumpkins are pre-gutted and the blades are dull to avoid mishaps. “The carving happens at the beginning… in case someone does have one too many,” she said.
Overall, the trend isn’t just benefiting couples but also helping small businesses stay afloat. Kashanian shared that NY Cake Academy adapts to stay relevant, introducing classes inspired by social media crazes. “To be a small business in Manhattan is really tough,” she told the NY Post. “We just try to keep up with the trends.”
These lively and economical BYOB experiences are proving to be a perfect match for Gen Z’s desire for creative, budget-conscious dating options. From art and cake decorating to pasta-making, this new era of dating mixes fun with affordability, ensuring a memorable night out.
